Excessive anxiety itself removes you from the fight/flight reaction that characterizes your vacillation.And that these opposite directions remain polarized and incongruent unless you can approach them in an entirely different (and counter-intuitive, way.) And don’t underestimate how anyone’s fear of failure pushes them in two paradoxically contrary ways. Your inner critic, desiring above all to protect you from the stressful anxiety of failure, prohibited your staying task-oriented. Overcome by the fear of failure, you gave up prematurely.Therefore, sooner or later, not experiencing the gratification you sought, you gave up competing with yourself as a lost cause. So your comparative successes nonetheless felt like failures. But given its unrealistic, unreachable standards, whatever efforts you made never seemed good enough. Your insatiable inner critic has driven you to try harder, even to aim for perfection.And you might, unconsciously, have chosen to do this in the past because you convinced yourself that was how you could get along best with those around you and be (although only conditionally) accepted by them. Without realizing it, you’ve allowed others’ wants and needs to take precedence over your own.

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